BreakUp Comforting

12 of November, 2011 Saturday


Everybody loves to be in a relationship with their love ones. But what comes after a broken relationship is the most hard to accept. Maybe some people had it easy, but some had it the hard way. It is because you love him/her that you let go, or you just can't get over that someone. We never know. But heart broken sure is a powerful curse for those that deeply in love before. It will never end, it just keep resurface all those memories. Bad or Good, it doesn't even matter. As long as it is a memory you could think of.


All the heartbroken will need someone to comfort them. But i wonder why is all people also the same when try to comfort someone heartbroken. They will say bad words about the one you have loved with all your heart and might. It sure is a good way of comfort. Telling about all the bad and nothing good. People will say anything to make your heart feel better. Some people may take it and feels like the heart has lighten and would forget about the special one. But i just feel more sad and sad about those comforting words.


Today mom and bro ask me still thinking of my Love. Then they start to tell me all sorts of lie. She's not that pretty, she's not the type of girl you like, there is alot more girls better that her, you can simply find anyone better than her...... they can give you Thousand reason to hate your love ones. But i could see that they are just comforting me. Don wan me to think so much and worried about me. When we are together, they just keep pouring those praises. Sometimes i can't even stop them from praising her. Cannot let her hear so much, or else she will become too happy. I appreciate the comfort,Mum and Bro. Thank you.


The thing i hate most when comforting me was telling me she's not worth my attention. I would like to say FUCK you. Who are you to tell me this. If she's not worth it, i will know myself. Never ever say that to anyone. It hurts more than those ugly lies you tell. One shouldn't say one self not worthy. Everyone is equal. I love her at the first place, i love her with everything i have. And also please don't ask how much have been spent on her/him. The value of love cant be calculate through money.


So, when comforting people, just tell her how good and tell about the best thing him/her has give. Its always the best thing to do, to tell the truth. Maybe sometime the truth is ugly, then just tell it. No need to round the bushes and bend the facts. Just appreciate and be happy.

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